I used to feel this way all the time whenever I open my closet. And because I think I have nothing to wear, I go shopping. It’s a vicious cycle that never stops really. I have to clear my wardrobe all the time to make space for new clothes and the amount of wastage generated is just embarrassing. There are pieces that I’ve worn only once and have never seen the light of day again because they’re no longer in trend or I just don’t fancy them anymore. In the worst case scenario, some are brand new with tags on – impulse buys obviously.

Does this sound all too familiar to you? Today, I’m going to share the solution to your problems.

Did you know that Style Theory, a new designer clothing subscription service in Singapore that gives you access to unlimited designer clothes at just S$109 a month? It was only when I decided to declutter my wardrobe and curb my shopping habits that I found out about this amazing deal.

Besides unlimited designer clothes, you get to save time, wardrobe space and all that moolah that goes to shopping and dry cleaning. Imagine how much I could have saved if I had kicked my nasty habits earlier!

Here’s how it works:

The entire process is fuss-free! The app automatically selects outfits for you based on your style preferences and measurements. Plus, there’s no need to do any laundry (BIG YAY please!) and you can easily schedule a return which comes prepaid whenever you’re ready.  I picked out my first box of 3 gorgeous pieces from Style Theory recently and they arrived in an elegant marble print box.

Here are some of the pieces I picked:

Thai designer – The Only Son (@theonlyson_studio)

Top from Patinya//Shorts from Cameo

This is one of the best ways to declutter your wardrobe and always have something nice to wear. Isn’t it great to have the best of both worlds?

Just look at all the brands that you’ll have instant access to:

Interested in subscribing too? Click here to join the waitlist!

Why is there a waitlist? Style Theory is currently in the soft launch stage. When it is formally launched, the first group of ladies on the waitlist will receive an invitation to subscribe to their service. They’ll gradually open up more slots to the next group on the waitlist.

To avoid any disappointment, I would highly recommend that you join the waitlist now!

I’m sure Revolve needs no introduction. If you’re a fan like me, it’s time to rejoice because their 3 Day Sale is happening right now from 20th Sept 7am to 22nd Sep 11.59pm and you’ll get 20% off your purchases!

All you have to do is key in the code: FALL20 upon checkout.

I’m always spoiled for choice whenever I browse Revolve’s website. Besides my favourite designer labels such as For Love & Lemons and Free People, I discovered other brands that I personally adore too.

Here are some of my picks (click on the pics or links to see more!):

1. Privacy Please

If you like basic pieces with a twist, you’ll fall in love with Privacy Please.

Thank you to Revolve for sending the Clairborne Romper over.

If you don’t already know, international shipping takes only 3 days and it’s absolutely free for orders above USD100!

2. L’Academie

I like L’Academie for its preppy chic designs…

…and PJ inspired looks!

3. Lovers + Friends

You can always count on Lovers + Friends for elegant and feminine designs.

4. LPA

Looking for the perfect party dress to dazzle the crowd during year-end festivities? LPA has the answer!

5. Tularosa

Going boho chic is easy peasy with Tularosa.

6. NBD

NBD is my favourite label for chic and edgy streetwear.

7. Majorelle

Rock those vintage chic vibes with Majorelle!

8. Raye

Need a shoe fix? Raye has got you covered.

9. Grlfrnd

Everyone needs a pair (or more) jeans in their wardrobe. Pick one that rocks your boat at Grlfrnd!

Happy Shopping!

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* This promo code cannot be combined with other offers. The promo code is not valid on pre-order items, cannot be applied to previous orders, gift card purchases, or applied to fees associated with shipping or taxes.

* The discount code is not valid for use on the following brands: Alice + Olivia, A.L.C., Ash, Black Halo, Canada Goose, Citizens of Humanity, Common Projects, Diane von Furstenberg, Elizabeth and James, Hudson Jeans, J Brand, Joie, Love Moschino, Marc Jacobs, Marc by Marc Jacobs, Mason by Michelle Mason, M Missoni, Paige Denim, Public School, rag & bone/JEAN, 7 For All Mankind, Soft Joie, Stuart Weitzman, T by Alexander Wang, Theory, Vince, Wolverine. Other restrictions may apply. Eminent Inc. reserves the right to modify this promotion at any time. This promo code will expire automatically on September 22nd at 11:59 PM local time.

There’s beauty in simplicity. Time and time again, skincare brand Simple (how aptly named) has proven that there is truth in this statement. Simple has been an expert in sensitive skincare since they launched the first perfume and colour-free soap in 1960. What’s even more amazing is that their brand philosophy of using only the purest skin-loving ingredients without colouring and perfume has remained consistent throughout the years.

It goes without saying that their latest micellar cleansing water and micellar cleansing wipes are a true reflection of that too. Simple has just found a new fan in me and you’ll know why as you read on.

1. Simple Micellar Water (200ml, $16.90)

Micellar water (which essentially functions as a make-up remover) may not be new to the market, but Simple’s Micellar Water certainly upped the game with its formula and affordability.

How is it different?

No artificial perfumes, colours or harsh chemicals are used.

Triple purified water, the purest possible water, is used to minimize potential irritations and ensure that it is safe for sensitive skin. It is also chock full of nourishing ingredients such as Vitamin B3 to soften your skin, perfect for those of you who have dry skin like me, and  Vitamin C which serves as an anti-oxidant. Hexylene Glycol is the active ingredient used here to dissolve make-up, unclog pores and gently condition your skin.

This formula ensures that your skin stays hydrated even after all the impurities are lifted. In fact, it instantly boosts skin hydration by 90%.

Even though no rinse is required, my skin feels effortlessly clean, refreshed and hydrated without any tight or sticky after-feel. Pretty amazing, isn’t it?

How do you use it?

It’s so easy to use. Just remember these 3 simple steps.

Step 1: Pour a generous amount on a cotton pad

Step 2:  Swipe the soaked cotton pad across your entire face to remove make-up

Step 3: Gently wipe your eye area with your eyes closed.

And you’re done!

Does it really remove all traces of make-up?

This is one of the most common questions about micellar cleansing water. That’s understandable because most are way too gentle to remove heavy duty make-up or even eye-makeup.

I put this to the test with my smudge-proof eyeliner and I’m happy to report that it works really well! Soak a cotton pad with Simple Micellar Water, place it on your eye area for about 2-3 seconds and gently wipe off your eye make-up. They come off easily without tugging on the delicate skin around your eyes.

2. Micellar Cleansing Wipes (25 pcs, S$15.90)

Prefer something handy that you can pop into your gym bag or hand luggage when you travel? Simple Micellar Cleansing Wipes gives you convenience in a pack.

Currently the only micellar wipes in the market, it is formulated with the same ingredients as Simple Micellar Water, so you can keep your skin clean and nourish it with all the goodness of these amazing nutrients while you’re on the go!

I like that these wipes are thoroughly soaked but not dripping wet and one piece is all you need to remove every trace of make-up. I’ll be sure to carry a pack with me when I next head out of the country!

If you are on the lookout for no frills, fuss-free yet absolutely effective micellar cleansers, I would highly recommend these products from Simple.

Simple Micellar Cleansing Water (SGD16.90 for 200ml) is available at all Watsons stores island-wide while Simple Micellar Wipes (SGD15.90 for 25 sheets) are available at all major pharmacies including Guardian, Unity, Fairprice and Redmart.

You can also redeem a FREE sample of Simple Micellar Cleansing Wipes on Samplestore.com!

I have been married to a rock climber who also happens to be a military man (click here to read my post on Being a Military Wife) for 8 years now.  We are probably the most unlikely couple around, simply because I don’t climb at all and most rock climbers tend to marry rock climbers.

Why did I, a non-climber, choose to marry a rock climber?

Here are some reasons why.

1) It made me move out of my comfort zone and grow as a person

I am risk averse by nature. I was never an adrenaline junkie and never in my wildest dreams did I think I would try hiking, paragliding or even be close to nature, for that matter.

After dating (and subsequently marrying) a rock climber and following him on a couple of outdoor climbing trips to overseas destinations that I would previously deem as God-forsaken, I managed to step out of my comfort zone, develop a greater sense of adventure and discover a side of me that I never knew existed.

I even belayed him on our trip to Spain. Well, I ended up flying off the cliff into the forest at one point and sustaining a huge bruise as part of the experience but nevertheless, it was fun. I also did paragliding during our trip to New Zealand.

I never knew I could do these things.

Personally, I think dating and marrying a rock climber taught me to embrace different experiences, to push boundaries, not be bounded by societal norms and more importantly, to always challenge myself and live life to the fullest.

Life is short. Live it.

2) I began appreciating the simple pleasures of life and became happier

Most rock-climbers are very down-to-earth. They don’t need to dine at fancy restaurants or stay at fancy hotels.  Despite my seemingly “princessy” demeanour and appearance, I actually began to enjoy being at one with nature, appreciating the simple pleasures of life beyond just material pursuits and going back to basics. While I do appreciate the finer things in life, I realized I don’t need them to be happy.

It made me understand that materialism is the source of a lot of unhappiness, as it forces us to compare our possessions and achievements with that of others. I’ve seen how this relentless pursuit for materialism has destroyed relationships and marriages. Divorce procedures are definitely a pain and it is hard to find a good divorce lawyer in Singapore.

I am glad to have broken out of that cycle.

3) You’ll never be the target of pickpockets or crimes

Because of how grounded rock climbers are and the nature of the sport, they usually hang out in singlets and 3/4 trousers or berms. They may not be the best dressed people around, and even less so when they are covered in chalk and sweat right after a satisfying climbing session.

But that’s great because they won’t be natural targets for pickpockets or crime syndicates thanks to the way they look.

Oh not forgetting those muscular biceps probably act as a deterrence too.

4) He’s usually thrifty

A typical rock climber will probably never ever throw out that old singlet from a rock climbing competition 10 years ago. It could be for sentimental reasons but as long as it still serves its purpose, he’s going to wear it again and again.

They don’t need to shop much and most of their moolah goes to items that will improve their performance on the rock wall, such as climbing gear and shoes.

What this means is, as a couple, you’ll probably be able to save more money together or travel to lovely places which are less-trodden such as Rodellar (Spain), which unexpectedly, is still one of my favourite destinations today.

Of course, it’s still nice to channel some funds to meaningful activities that would help the retail economy.

5) He is your real-life Spiderman

One of the perks of having a rock climber hubby is that he is able to climb effortlessly to greater heights (literally), just to take the perfect OOTD shot for you or capture that magnificent sunset atop a cliff.

Locked out of your room because you forgot your keys and you live on the 8th floor? Don’t worry, your very own Spiderman can climb up buildings in a flash to save his damsel in distress.

Disclaimer: I would only recommend this if you really can’t get hold of a locksmith.

Have I had work done on my face? I have no idea why, but I seem to get this question pretty often.

Well, to answer that question, I did try fillers and sculptra about 2-3 years ago but the effects have already worn off by now. While I’m happy with the way I look with or without any of these injectibles, it has always been my wish to get rid of stubborn pigmentation on my upper cheeks. No one is born perfect, and for me, pigmentation is my biggest gripe as I am genetically predisposed to it.

It only worsens with age if left untreated, and it doesn’t help even if I apply sunblock religiously. You can’t tell that I have pigmentation because I cover up pretty well, but I definitely look forward to the day when I can go completely bare-faced without these hideous spots!

Traditional treatments require a lot of downtime and it just doesn’t make sense to undergo so much pain and inconvenience when I have work, events and advertorials on my plate. I couldn’t be more excited when Dr Ram from The Wellness Clinic (TWC) Aesthetics introduced me to a new laser treatment called the Cutera Enlighten pico second laser. I was told that TWC Aesthetics is the first aesthetics clinic in Singapore and Southeast Asia to bring in this revolutionary technology.

What’s special about Cutera Enlighten pico second laser?

Are you genetically prone to pigmentation like me? Or perhaps you have birthmarks, tattoos or just surface pigmentation that you wish to get rid of?

If you face any of the issues above and yet do not wish to be affected by the downtime resulting from conventional laser treatments or be subjected to possible side effects (sometimes, aggressive treatments may further aggravate your pigmentation problem and cause it to worsen instead), this is your best bet.

What’s special about this laser is that it is able to penetrate deeply to target the root of the issue without damaging the surrounding skin. That equates to zero downtime, which is perfect for our busy lifestyle.

Is it effective?

I had my first session done a week ago and Dr Ram told me in all honesty that I wouldn’t see significant results after just one session. Reason being, the process of breaking down the pigments is very gentle and gradual to prevent collateral damage to the surrounding skin and possible aggravation of the issue (uh huh, those spots can potentially fight back with a vengeance if they are not treated carefully). Follow-up sessions once every fortnight are required for the next 2-3 months to completely eradicate the pigmentation.

Does it hurt and is there really no downtime?

Numbing cream was used prior to the treatment, hence all I felt was a slight tingling sensation. I experienced some redness immediately after the treatment, but that was easily covered up with concealer. Give it an hour or two and your skin is back to normal. I even went for a friend’s birthday celebration right after.

 I’ll be heading down for my second session next week, so stay tuned to this space if you’re interested to find out more about my skin’s progress!

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